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It's worth checking in on the Rosary in a Year

Laura DeMaria

You may be well aware of the mega successful podcasts coming out of Ascension Press the last few years, specifically Fr. Mike Schmitz’s Bible in a Year and Catechism in a Year. Well, Ascension is back with a new podcast, Rosary in a Year, with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames. Interestingly enough, just like its predecessors, it’s already the #1 podcast in the country. Yes, even beating out the true crime, news, and celebrity podcasts that you’d expect to be in first place.

You can listen to it wherever you listen to podcasts (and apparently Ascension has an app; I haven’t tried it). Here is a list of the show episodes on YouTube. I just listened to day 6, “Prayer is a Battle” and was struck by something Fr. Mark-Mary says. He says prayer is our lifeline of grace; when we aren’t praying, we are cut off from God in a particular way. And not only that, but that the enemy of our human nature would like to interfere with our ability to prayer and therefore keep us unable to hear the voice of God. Yikes! I will remember that next time I think my short prayers are not enough and I shouldn’t bother. Every little bit helps. Every effort we make to speak to God is hear by Him.

I say this because I often do not have enough time for a full rosary. I know they say it takes 15 minutes; that has never been my experience, especially once I add in the time it takes to actually name my intentions at the beginning. So then another day without really intentional prayer comes and goes. But this lesson calls me back to basics: just to be present with God, and pray sincerely, in the truth, for a few minutes, is better than nothing. It need not be a structured, fancy, 45 minutes, mystical mountaintop experience. God is already with us in all the day to day details of our lives; he will be with us in our small prayer, too. And glad to be there.

So, I do recommend the show, and i look forward to whatever further insights I will gain - prayerfully - by listening. And on that note, I will be on Relevant Radio’s Morning Air program this Thursday at 8:20ish, probably talking about this very topic.

God bless you in this new year! And God bless those moments where God is able to break through all our noise to show a little piece of himself to us.

Two signs of hope at the end of the year

Laura DeMaria

This morning I spoke with John Morales on the Morning Air Show about two recent headlines that caught my attention and that indicate signs of hope at the end of the year: one, that for the first time in American history, a display of the nativity was okayed to be held at the US Capitol; and two, that Bible sales are soaring. 22% growth of Bible sales in the last year, to be exact! All while regular book sales are not increasing. You can listen to that conversation here, starting about 17:20.

The increase in Bible sales is particularly interesting. The reporting indicated it could be driven by Gen Z, actually, as they search for meaning in a confusing world that seems increasingly meaningless and scary. I can relate to this, as a “revert.” Although I grew up with a very lukewarm faith, I had no idea about anything. My favorite thing to recall is that I didn’t even know churches had Mass during the weekday. I thought they were locked up and dark every day but Sunday. What a strange thought! Anyway, my own sense of “something missing” as a young adult is ultimately what drew me back, in a way, for the first time - at least sincerely. I didn’t get there through the Bible first, though, it was actually the rosary.

As for the nativity: isn’t it a strange thing, the way that an image like that can effect our hearts? Why did St. Francis of Assisi feel compelled to create the first nativity - how did he know it would work, so to speak? As we discuss in the conversation linked above, Catholics understand the power of beautiful imagery to call us out of ourselves and direct us to truth and goodness. Somehow, the nativity does that. By the power of the Holy Spirit, I presume.

Wishing you a beautiful remaining Advent season and a Merry Christmas season! P.S. my favorite thing right now: The Merry Beggars’ A Christmas Carol.

This Advent, try a media fast

Laura DeMaria

Advent is here! The most beautiful time of year, in its own special way, different even from the glory of Christmas and Easter. I like Advent because it is a time of waiting, of quiet, of hope and looking forward to joy. That’s the idea, anyway. But - that can be hard to do when we live in a world of eternal distractions.

So, this month I wrote an article, now up at Catholic Stand, called This Advent, Consider a Media Fast. If you’re looking for quiet, there’s no better way that to evaluate all your media consumption - news, sports, apps, social media, books, magazines, podcasts - and make choices about where to “fast” from them. That may mean simply cutting back on the amount of time spent, eliminating them altogether, or replacing with something else. All that and more in the article!

I also joined the Morning Air Show last week to discuss this topic. You can catch that conversation here, starting around minute 16:47.

Are you somewhere that’s expecting snow? Perhaps you’re enjoying Advent and Christmas on a sunny beach? Enjoy! It truly is the most wonderful time of the year.

This Advent, Consider a Media Fast

Advent – a time of beautiful, peaceful anticipation – is here! Advent is not a specifically penitential season, like Lent, and we don’t typically give things up. However, we do have an opportunity to refocus. For that reason, Advent is a great time to reconsider how we spend our time on our devices and on what media we consume. This Advent, consider taking a “fast” – or, a break – from all the news, stories, shows, and entertainment that distract you, replacing them with holier and more inspirational content, or better yet, prayer.

Why Advent?

Advent is important because, like Lent, it is a season of preparation. We are to prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ. If you’re like me, spending too much time watching junk on Netflix (even something seemingly harmless like this year’s popular rom-com about an attractive snowman coming to life) truly can distract you from your spiritual life. So, what kinds of replacements can we make in our media consumption habits during Advent? All kinds!

Where do I begin?

First, do an audit of your media consumption habits. When, where, and how often are you: checking your social media accounts; listening to the radio or podcasts; watching movies, shows, or YouTube; or reading a book or a magazine? How much of your media consumption focuses on sports and politics?

Then, what are your goals this Advent? Do you want more time to pray, to learn more about a saint or aspect of theology, or to spend in front of the Blessed Sacrament instead of your phone or computer, for example?

Keep in mind that you can decide how much you “give up” and detach. The content could be all your non-Catholic media or just enough each day to make room for greater inner quiet and contemplation.

Once you have done an honest self-assessment – you could call this an examination of conscience – then you can decide what you are giving up and with what you are replacing it.

Tips for switching up your content

Keep in mind that you don’t have to replace media in a one-for-one manner.  Instead of not watching your weekly show and replacing it with a Catholic show, you might simply spend more time with your family. If you are seeking new media altogether, here are a few suggestions.

First, do you listen to Catholic radio? Now’s your chance! While many excellent Catholic stations exist, providing affirming and authentically Catholic content every day, I am personally partial to Relevant Radio, where I have been a regular contributor to its daily Morning Air show for nearly a decade.

Next: do you have a prayer app? Many people use Hallow, which provides reflections, readings, and prayers at your fingertips. Many Catholic apps exist; do some research to see which fits you best.

Likewise, if you’re already a fan of listening to podcasts, switch to something like Fr. Mike Schmitz’s Catechism in a Year or Bible in a Year podcasts, which are globally popular for good reason. I also enjoy Jimmy Akin’s Mysterious World, which examines historical, scientific, and supernatural mysteries of the world through the lenses of both faith and reason.

If you’ve got a shelf of spiritual books that you haven’t yet read, Advent is the perfect opportunity. I am spending Advent reading John Paul II’s encyclical on the family, Familiaris Consortio, which seems appropriate for contemplating while the Holy Family is front and center in the life of the Church.

As for TV and shows, Advent is a great time to consume stories that are uplifting, wholesome, and point our thoughts to God. Watch  “The Chosen” or sign up for the Pray More Novenas Advent Retreat and let your regular shows take a break until January.

Lastly, the best substitute for mindless media consumption is prayer. This Advent, know that you can find time to cultivate that inner quietness, rather than turning immediately to consuming some form of distracting media.

Biggest goal: preparing your heart

Advent is brief – much briefer than Lent – but gives us a chance to refocus on what matters.  The suggestions here are just a few ideas to get you started, and with your own research, you’ll find countless ways to re-fill your time. And, if you make a fast from traditional media this year, you may find yourself uninterested in returning to those old media habits once all is over. Another plus is that you will likely find that any of these new media habits you are enjoying are completely appropriate for the entire family. Best of all, you will have made room in your heart for the coming of Christ.