Why are Gen Z gals visiting monasteries for a lil' peace and quiet?

This morning I was on Morning Air on Relevant Radio discussing the trend, shared first on Tik Tok, that Gen Z women are seeking out monasteries for their summer vacations. Why? They just want a little peace and quiet already! You can listen to the conversation here, starting at 19:32,

My favorite parts of this conversation were talking about what a younger, secular generation might learn from the witness of other women committed to a religious path for their life, and how good food and good conversation are great evangelization tools. Really. I was talking to someone recently: I hear about people who have these profound conversion experiences while at adoration, for example, or because they just get the Eucharist at a deep soul level, and ta-da, they are on the path to becoming Catholic. Not me! It took heart ache and prayer, but also, an appreciation of just the rhythms, rules, and traditions of the Church to make a revert of me. And one of the things I have enjoyed the most is the aspect of the church that says - celebrate! We are human, after all, and we have human needs, which includes community. So, these. young ladies are finding it. And silence, to boot. That is the genius of this faith: it just gets humans (because Jesus gets humans. I imagine, in part, because he became one).

Tomorrow: why Gen Z women are "flocking" to convents for summer vacation

You may have seen Vice’s article, “Gen Z Women Are Booking Convents Instead of Beach Houses This Summer.” When I saw and read it, I thought, of course. This isn’t all that shocking; it’s even in line with all the conversions we’ve been seeing lately. But the question is, why?

Well, imagine the culture for young women right now. The noise and confusion around beauty standards and a woman’s worth, digital overload, loneliness and lack of relationships, meaningless online interactions, iffy job prospects in the face of the AI takeover, difficulty in finding a life partner, and so on. Even if you subtract out all the cultural noise, the digital fatigue itself is enough to drive someone to seek out a silent vacation.

So I will be discussing this tomorrow morning on Morning Air at 8:20 am eastern. Find your way to listen here (I recommend just opening up the livestream player).

One other thing I want to talk about, though, and I hope it makes its way into the conversation, is what this means as a broader evangelization opportunity. Food and good conversation are great evangelizers. What can we do to make our own homes and lives attractive to those who are seeking? Meaning, how to welcome people into a Catholic home, or a Catholic friendship? Not for the purpose of converting someone to Catholicism, which would be manipulative, but to demonstrate that indeed there is more to life, that there is peace, friendship, fun to be had yet in this life. That life has meaning, and that each life has purpose.

Tune in to discuss!

A couple tips on how to improve your focus during prayer

Friends, I was on Morning Air this past Thursday to discuss the topic of how to improve your focus for a better prayer life. Of course, these tips help with focus for any task, and it seems to be our culture has a crisis of focus. You can hear that interview here, starting at 17:27.

The two tips I discuss are removing your phone from your bedroom at night so it’s not the first and the last think you check every day. Not only does that further erode your focus (constantly checking notifications), it distracts from the literal time you could use praying.

The other tip I share is to actually practice focusing. To practice your focus, choose something beautiful and look at it thoroughly for a time. That could be a stained glass window, a patch of sunlight on grass, the flowers in your back yard, a holy icon. The purpose is not to turn that time itself into a prayer, but to just…focus. Let the distracting thoughts come and go. Just look.

This conversation took place on the feast of St. Ignatius of Loyola, the founder of the Jesuits (Society of Jesus). I have written and spoken various places about what I owe St. Ignatius in terms of my own prayer life, and the contemplative form of prayer he created. I highly recommend taking an Igantian retreat if ever you are able.

By the way, apparently we had a caller who called in and said that this topic was very helpful to him, and timely, and that he was going to make a decision to work on his focus. But, he didn’t want to go on air to say that. Listeners and readers: please join me on the air! I would love to hear from you.

St. Ignatius of Loyola, pray for us!